For anal play, lube is not optional. The anus does not produce its own lubrication, so the right product, and enough of it, makes the difference between comfortable and not.
1. Pick the base
Silicone-based lubes, such as Uberlube, are slick and long lasting, and they do not dry out. They are a popular choice for anal play and longer sessions. Do not use them on silicone toys. Water-based lubes are safe with every toy and wash off easily, but they absorb and need reapplying. A hybrid sits between the two. Our full breakdown is in how to choose lube.
2. Choose a thicker texture
Thicker gels and creams stay where you put them. Thin, watery lubes run off quickly, which is fine for rings and strokers but less ideal for anal use.
3. Match it to your toy
Silicone toy: water-based lube only. Glass, steel, hard plastic or TPE: either base works, but check the label. See body-safe materials if you are not sure what your toy is made of.
4. Skip the extras if you are sensitive
Flavoured, warming and tingling lubes can irritate sensitive skin. If you are prone to irritation, pick a plain, unscented formula and patch-test a small amount first.
5. Use more than you think
Apply lube to the toy and to your body, and reapply as soon as things start to feel dry. Condoms and lube together are a good habit for any toy you share.
Quick picks
- Long sessions, no silicone toys: a silicone lube.
- Silicone toys or all-round use: a thick water-based gel.
- On the go: single-use packets, see travel packs and sachets.
Browse lube and care, or shop by brand: Uberlube, Sliquid, JO, Wicked and YES.
This guide is general information, not medical advice. If you have a health condition or pain that does not settle, speak to a doctor. Every After Dark order ships in a plain, unmarked box, free over $175 across Canada.
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